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Not At All About TV...And That's Okay


Welp, I know this is a TV blog but something happened last week that I just need to share. I work as a cashier/receptionist for Liberty Toyota in Burlington, NJ (if you’re nearby you should stop in) and part of my job is ringing out customers. After they have had service done on their car and I always accept their payment and as I give them their paperwork I try to tell every customer “Have a good day,” as they leave. One day last week, a customer replied to my farewell with a slight and subtle “Make it a great day.”

Talk about a aha moment. 

Honestly at first I must admit that I didn't exactly catch what he said. But when it actually hit me and cane to my realization, when I thought about that, I was blown away. How much different would my day, my life be if I made a decision everyday to make it a great one. To make a conscious effort to not let the little things affect your day or bring you down, to rise above the chaos and nonsense ( *cough my coworkers cough*) and live each day doing whatever it takes to make you happy. Imagine what kind of world it would be if everyone did that.
A week later and I still can’t let that one go, every time I think about it, I'm blown away. The old saying goes, we must be the change we see in the world, so this is promising to do my part in making this change in the world. Man, there’s nothing like a great aha moment, it can really alter your entire life, if you let it.  

I know if you don't think this is as great as I think it is, then you probably think this is super lame, but I just thought this was pretty cool. Back to your regular scheduled programming. 

I Love Girls (the show)


I feel like I haven’t posted in forever, it’s been one thing after the other lately. I'm not exactly sure why but I’ve been super tired lately. Oversleeping all the time, barely able to keep my eyes open at work, snappy towards everybody, and don’t ask me to do something, I just don’t have the energy. Seriously, I'm on my second cup of coffee and usually I can get to at least 3 before I feel the need to get a cup. I'm thinking of getting it checked out because I'm not staying up any later or wearing myself down more than usual  so I think I should try and find a reason why. It doesn’t help that I'm a bit of a hypochondriac either. But we’re not here to talk about my sleeping habits, or lack thereof, so moving on. 

I was able to watch the season finale of my new favorite show Girls and it was a great ending to a great show. Jessa deciding to have a surprise wedding was classic and hilarious. Do I think it’s legit, I’m not sure yet, but I know that she made a good choice. To think the biggest whore of the group is the first to get married, actually when I think about it doesn’t surprise me at all. Life always kinda happens like that. I think it’s exactly what she needs to mellow her out, she needed this to begin to take things seriously. After tonight’s episode, I’m kinda beginning to get nervous that Marnie is going to slowly but surely turn into a major slore to make up for lost time. I'm curious to find out what happened to the guy from the art showing earlier in the season, I thought for sure that was going to go somewhere. That’s one of the things I love about this show, is extremely unpredictable. I usually can expect certain things to happen an episode or two ahead, but not with this show. Just like the wedding, I did not see Adam falling for Hannah at all. Up until it happened, I did not see it happening. And sad to say but Hannah had everything that happened coming to her. I do kind of think she led Adam on, she set him up. I never in a million years thought I would say this but I kind of relate to Adam in a weird and completely unusual way. I know what it’s like to hold back from getting attached and then when you finally do, you regret it more than anything. Sometimes, people make you think it’s okay to fall because they can incline that they’ve already fallen, when they were only after the thrill of the chase. I definitely just had an epiphany right there, I have a love/hate relationship with those. I'm excited for next season, there’s gonna be a lot of exciting changes, should be interesting. 

I also watched RHONJ and I have a strong sense, stronger than before, that it’s the beginning of the end. I feel like, one by one, the ladies are gonna start dropping out the shows. I can’t help but pity Teresa and worry about her sanity. Sometimes it can really seem like she’s losing her mind, she is constantly contradicting herself and finding herself in situations where she’s arguing with those closest to her. Honestly, I think Joe has a lot to do with why everyone is isolating themselves from her. It’s unfortunate that this is what it has come down to. I'm really scared for what’s next. This week’s episode was like 15 minutes of normal episode activity and 45 minutes of a very intense conversation between Teresa and Jacqueline, followed by Caroline joining the conversation. I will definitely be tuning in next week; Teresa begins to reconstruct the relationships in her family, should be interesting to see if they’re receptive to her. 

Well, I guess that’s it for this week. This will most likely be the last post for this week, I am going on vacation and I am sooooo excited!!! This is beyond much needed, I was ready to go to the doctor and have this prescribed, so serious right now. Until the next time, maybe the next show, I’ll see you when I see you. 


Well, I Finally Watched...


So I feel like I should warn you that this post is probably gonna be a long one because I finally watched the season premiere of Real Housewives of New York and I’ve got a lot to say, there’s been quite a few changes. The obvious change is the addition of 3 new housewives and they bring a lot of interesting things to the mix. They are definitely stirring the pot, even after one episode. Aviva is the ex wife of Sonya’s best friend whom Sonya has allegedly been more than friends with on more than one occasion. Also, another twist is that Luann has had relations with him also, so this is quite the love triangle. Fortunately for Aviva, she has moved on and has remarried so she won’t be the bitter ex. I have to admit I watched like half of this week’s episode and I don’t want to go too deep into this because I haven’t watched the whole episode but she seems to really love her husband. She even said something along the lines of if he was gone she wouldn’t be able to go on and he’s her everything. I found that to be quite surprising, she didn’t strike me as the type to fall into that trap, but I guess its all too common nowadays. Another new housewife, Heather, is a fashion designer and has worked for Sean John, Jennifer Lopez, House of Dereon, her resume is pretty impressive. She owns a shapewear line that also contains lingerie, which she decided to wear to a party at Sonja’s. Yes, she wore a lingerie slip to a party. She had a jacket thing over it but still, I thought it was a little tacky. Of course, it was a big hit with Ramona, the queen of class. I have a feeling what I’ll have to say about her this season will not be flattering at all, but I am trying to stay away from bashing so we’ll see. The crazy thing about Heather and Ramona is that they are almost the same person. Like they have a lot of not so nice things to say about each other but it’s almost like a pot calling kettle situation. I can understand why they don’t care for each other, their larger than life personality can be a bit too much for one room, and honestly I think Ramona is afraid that there might be someone who is just as, if not more successful than her. She’s supposed to be the working/career mom and someone has come in and is doing it better. I'm excited to see how this plays out, because anybody who watches knows Ramona is not the type to fight fair or nicely, so this should be very, very interesting. The third new housewife, Carole, is an author who was married to Robert Kennedy’s cousin I believe. She is also a Princess by marriage, or something like that, I don’t know she was kinda confusing me. She is a widow, so she feels the need to complain about trying to live life as a widow, which I normally could sympathize with, except her husband was a prince. He left her with a fortune and a great life, so I’m sorry but I don’t wanna hear it. And it’s not like she complains about being alone or the grief of losing the love of her life, she complains about having people come up to her and compliment her about her book or the rules of dating for a widow. All I can do is just hope this isn’t a trend for all season. Well, Ramona and Luann are fighting for the title of queen of condescending remarks. There are unresolved issues from last season and supposedly Ramona threatened to blackmail Luann with information about her kids. I’m sure there’s more to the story, at least I hope so because that’s pretty low, even for Ramona. I just can’t wait to get home and finish this week’s episode, it was getting really good and then I had to go to work. 

So I have to talk about this week’s Girls episode. I must admit I am very disappointed in Hannah. She’s is becoming that girl I hate, that girl who was everybody’s best friend until she got into a relationship. I just never expected this from her, she always seemed so much smarter than this. I guess in the end, we’re all that girl if we’re not careful. It ended with Marnie and Hannah getting into a huge fight and Marnie stating that she doesn’t want to live with Hannah anymore. I have to admit, in the beginning of the show I was empathetic to Hannah because she was kinda the lost friend and plus she was being cut off from her parents so you almost pitied her. Now, all I see is a brat who needs a wakeup call. I mean, her parents were supporting her for 2 years after she got out of school and she hasn’t had the best words for them and now Marnie is supporting her until she gets a job and this is how she thanks her. She constantly wants to tear down those she needs the most. Unfortunately I can be guilty of the same thing, so this was definitely an eye opening topic. Next week should be interesting; it’s the season finale so I can’t wait to see the direction they want to take the show. 

So, I did warn you guys that this post was going to run a little longer than usual. There’s one more show I need to talk about, that’s Tough Love. If I haven’t told you guys before, I will most likely be auditioning for this show next season because my love life is pretty much in the dumpster, so of course I watch a show about women who are just as bad if not worse-off than me. And, I'm not going to make this a pity party about how sucky things are going in that department so let’s move on to the show. This season has brought quite a few fascinating characters, someone has already been kicked off. This episode just might have been the most drama-filled, with Steve bringing back all the girls exes, except Despina who is the infamous maneater, so no one wanted to come. I’m not gonna lie it was pretty tough to see all the girls break down when their exes first arrived, and I wasn’t expecting so many of the girls to fall back into their old patterns. I was shocked by Stephanie’s ex, he was tatted and pierced everywhere and kinda a douche. She just seemed to pretty to fall for someone like that, and to hear that they were on and off for almost 10 years, I wasn’t expecting that. It was obvious that he had this unexplainable hold over her, and he was one of those I don’t want you but I don’t want anyone else to either types. Another surprise was Shalina’s ex, who was an apparent case of camera balls. I felt so bad for Shalina, I can only imagine how embarrassed she must have been. I thought it was odd that Steve didn’t say anything to her during group, she ran away, instead of handling the situation, which isn’t gonna solve anything. I really like Aubrey for her though, especially after seeing her ex, he seems like exactly what she needs. Danielle, I don’t know how I feel about that dilemma. All one can do is hope that she makes the right decision. Elisabeth, Elisabeth Elisabeth Elisabeth. She’s come along way, but man does she have a way to go. Her ex just seems like an a-hole and basically said that she can’t support herself. And unfortunately, I kinda think she agrees with him. I just wanna hug her and say, you’re stronger than you think, girl. Next week all the girls go back home with their matches, so I’m like extra excited, next Sunday night can’t get here soon enough. 

Well, that concludes my research paper for this week. If you haven’t fallen asleep yet, then please comment, I would love some feedback. Do you agree, do you think I've gone too far, I wanna hear it. Until next time, a bientot.

No Real Housewives Today Guys

I know you guys are gonna strangle me but I actually missed Real Housewives of New York City, again. I had every intention to watch today but we got a new TV set up in the family room, and although its uber-cool, it’s one of those 3D tvs (I’m gonna try and refrain from gloating), nobody knows how to work it. I consider myself pretty tech-savvy, I figured out how to set up my old boss’ Wii, WiFi, and HDTV all by my lonesome. And I didn’t open an instruction manual once. I know, that’s pretty impressive, and that’s just the beginning, it seemed like every week at least I was fixing something, but I going on a tangent so back To RHONY. I’m gonna try to watch both episodes online when I get a chance, not sure how I’m gonna do that since I broke the screen to my computer. Yeah, I know you’re gasping in disbelief too. I don’t know how it happened, and frankly every time I think about it I start getting itchy (don’t judge me) so I'm gonna move on. Just know that I don’t exactly have a computer right now, but for you guys I’m gonna find a way. See I’m getting better, I'm already more committed. 

So instead of seeing RHONY fabulousness, I got a little bit of a workout on and I watched The Beyonce Experience, which I am in love with. I have always been a fan of Beyonce and a great concert but this takes the cake. I have seen it before and also have been looking for it for like 5 years (I’m not joking), but now that I've actually got it at home, I am obsessed. I can honestly say with confidence that I’ll know the whole DVD choreography by the end of the month, and it’s a 2.5 hour long DVD. Hey, what can I say, I’m committed? I feel like I get heat for saying this, well it could be caused by the frequency of how often I say it, but I think Beyonce is the best performer…ever (don’t shoot me). Now, hear me out. Nobody can tell me with a straight face that they can sit through a Beyonce show and not be entertained, at all. I feel like the only word to describe her is mesmerizing. She is inspiring and motivational, and I’m sorry but in my opinion she’s better than Michael Jackson. Whenever I say that, I feel like I have to prepare for a right hook or I’m gonna get jumped in a corner or something, his fans are passionate and that’s putting it nicely. But enough about how amazing Beyonce is, moving on. 

So real quick (it never is) I want to talk about the new TV I got, which I am also in love with. It has got to be the coolest thing in the house for sure! It’s 3D, which I just found out last night means that it can make anything 3D, yes anything including all my reality TV shows, which I’m not sure why it would be cool in 3D but I still want to see it. It also can connect to WiFi and has all the same features as a regular PC but in HD, or 3D if you want. I must admit, you haven’t lived until you’ve watched your favorite Youtube videos on a big (I don’t know how big it is, I just know it’s big) flatscreen TV. I watched like 10 of those S*** (insert a random ethnicity) Say videos, and I’m not sure it I was tired or just amazed but every single one was like 10 times funnier. Hey, it was pretty cool. There’s also a FitnessTV app, which has random workout programs like one specifically for your abs, a 10 minute Cardio program, etc. I have been trying to get back into the gym for the past couple months and I was beginning to get nervous that I might actually have to pay for a gym membership. God is good, cause that was probably not going to happen, let’s be honest I would have probably just stayed unhealthy. So, I'm going to be committed to a healthier lifestyle also, not just this blog. Now I have no excuse, it’s seriously just a trip downstairs. 

Well, that’s it for today. I would love to know what everyone’s opinion on the best performers ever, do you agree, do you think I’m crazy? I would love some feedback. Leave your comments below, I don’t have anything else to do with my time so let’s get the conversation started.

No Catchy Title Today (sorry)...


So, as promised, I am going to reluctantly do a post about the Basketball Wives reunion. I was beginning to reconsider this decision because of a few factors. Firstly, I know this show is drama at its finest, but honestly, I just don’t know how much more of this kinda drama I can take. The cattiness and fighting is fun and funny when its stays at that point, but when things become physical, when 40+ year old women begin running across tables to attack someone, that’s my cue to go. I just can’t support that type of behavior, no matter how entertaining it is. I just keep thinking I ain’t got time for this, I'm too grown (in my ratchet girl voice). I can’t encourage this behavior from anyone, especially a 40 something year old who has a daughter in college. But much to my chagrin, I tuned in anyway and I have to say I was quite surprised. Everyone acted quite calmly and maturely, which was a pleasant shock. At first I was all for it, but then I became a little bored, which caused me to have an inner revelation. I realized I was addicted to the drama and needed it to truly enjoy television. I quickly became over the phony tears every 5 seconds and admissions of the foolery they caught themselves in this season. I wasn’t sure how much I believed it and honestly didn’t care, I wanted to see some low blows and running across stage in anger. When I thought about it, I was a little disappointed in myself. I mean, why would I want to encourage this, even if it’s only internally. What does that say about me, as a person? Not much. And so I decided that if they were serious about having a more positive outlook from now on, I would support it, bored or not. I wouldn’t mind going over the reunion bit by bit, but I don’t even see the point. If you watched, great, if you didn’t, I can seriously say you didn’t miss anything. There wasn’t anything interesting that needs to be mentioned or highlighted. So I think its best that we move on.

I actually caught So You Think You Can Dance this week, which I was very proud of. For whatever reason, every week something happens and I end up missing it, along with it not being recorded, so this was the first time since the season premiere that I caught the entire episode, so as you can probably guess I was super-dee duper excited. This week, auditions were held in Atlanta and I must admit Atlanta was on fire! There wasn’t a single comedy audition, every performance they displayed that day was a great one, and don’t get me wrong there were definitely some moments where I was cracking up, but the display of talent this week was truly remarkable. And I must admit Debbie Allen is hilarious. Her commentary throughout every performance was just the funniest thing ever; she had me dying the whole time. This was the episode to watch and if this is an indication of what is to come up, I can’t wait for the top 12. Some of my favorites were Audrey Case, the girl who could squeak with her neck, she was phenomenal. Also Tim Conkel, the karate and Selena Gomez obsessed hip-hopper who only had a week of ballet lessons and his pirouette was pretty great. Another pleasant surprise was Damon and Deon, the friends who stole their dance from two twins off Youtube and came back to make things right. I have to say they did, but I didn’t understand why only one made it through. There was an equal amount of talent and both could hold their own during choreographer. Well, I'm happy for the one who did. But what I found interesting was that they mentioned how their dance was from the twins and the producers somehow forgot to air that line. That was very, very interesting and it makes me question the integrity of the show. I feel like I'm just trying to be dramatic and act like I care, knowing deep down I'm not gonna stop watching. It’s like when a mom hears her son was stealing and she’s like well I'm sure there was a good reason. I'm sure there’s an explanation for why they left that part out… I could talk for days about this show, but ill spare you.

Well, I'm going to try to catch up on last week’s Real Housewives of New York, I still haven’t gotten a chance to catch that one and watch this week’s new episode which airs on Thursday. Until then, Au Revoir!

I've Missed You Guys!


Well, I’m back! And my, oh my how I’ve missed this thing. It’s been nearly 2 years since I’ve posted anything and I truly can’t believe it. To say my life has changed would be the understatement of the century; I suppose transformed is a much better word for it. I am two years smarter and more experienced, which means I’ve learned from the mistakes of my last few posts. I have reread my blog over and over again and struggle to not cringe in embarrassment; I can’t believe I actually wrote those. All the spelling errors and improper grammar, I couldn’t imagine someone who just graduated high school actually thought that was okay. But fortunately, I’m not here to talk about how ditzy I was at 19, I’m here to talk about TV, so let’s get this thing going.

Let’s start with the MTV Movie Awards, which came on Sunday night. I’ve taken a non-bashing vow so I’m going to try to be polite as I can. Let’s just say the adjective I would attach to this show was “sub-par.” It just seemed to be full of non-sense categories and awkward speeches, especially any speech involving Kristen Stewart. Sometimes I feel bad for her because of how unusual she is, it just seems like she lacks a personality all-around, in her appearances, in her acting roles, everywhere. I’m still amazed at how successful she has become. I’m not sure if they got a little bit lazy in the planning process for this year but this show lacked a sense of professionalism. There was no excitement, no je ne se quoi quality to this show. I knew it was below standards when no one fought to have it saved on the DVR after it was finished. My sister asked if we should just delete it and there was a unanimous “yes,” from everyone in the room. I’m the type of person that will keep an awards show on the DVR just to watch the musical performances over and over again. I still remember when Rihanna opened the AMA’s a couple years ago, I watched it so often I knew the choreography by heart (I wish I was joking). But not this year, Fun was overrated, Wiz Khalifa was blah and honestly, I don’t remember any other performances, which is kinda sad. Even the nominee entry scenes were strange. The whole thing, I just didn’t get it.

Another big deal tonight was Real Housewives of New Jersey, which I’m beginning to be over. I feel like I have a loyalty to this show because I’m a fellow Jersey girl but I’m not so sure how much more I can take. I almost forgot to watch this week, probably wouldn’t have if it wasn’t preset to record every week on my DVR. I just think there’s no need for the hysterics every week, and Teresa’s feud with her brother and Melissa is getting really old, really fast. Last season it was heartbreaking, but now it’s just becoming tiresome. I have to admit I never saw this coming but maybe this show has outrun its course. I think no matter what this show will always have loyal fans but I can’t say that I will be one of them. We’ll just have to wait and see where the show takes us in the next few episodes. I do know one thing, I see a tornado in the near future, and that’s one storm I can’t miss.

I wanna talk briefly about a show that I can officially add to my weekly addiction list, this new show on HBO called Girls. I don’t want to go too in depth because I don’t want this to become a research paper, but this is a great show! I wouldn’t say this if I didn’t believe it but I think this could be the next Sex and the City, maybe even better. The story lines remind me of why I so desperately want to live in New York City, if only for a few months. There’s a liveliness that’s infectious and unmatched, which is apparent in this show. It seems so real, so relatable. If you’re out of high school and trying to sort your way through life, there’s a character in this show you can connect with. I think I’m every character, depending on the kind of day I’m having. I do have to say though, this is definitely an HBO show. There’s no limit to how far this show will go to prove its point, I am 21 and I was a tad disturbed by some of the content in this show, but then again, what else is new? I am hardly the normal 21 year old, I’m what they like to call 21 going on 60, and unfortunately they are correct. My only suggestion, watch for yourself, you may think this is sugar-coated; I wouldn’t be surprised one bit. So much for talking briefly, right?

Tomorrow I get to talk about the season premiere of Real Housewives of New York, which is still my favorite, and the Basketball wives, which I’ve already got at least a paragraph to discuss at the top of my head. Until then, Tata!